How to be a chill bride, not a raging Bridezilla

Planning a wedding comes with plenty of stress, worry, and fears that something might go wrong on the big day. But the bride need not unleash her inner monster during the planning phase and in the days leading up to the special day – she can keep her cool throughout the whole process. Here are some tips to achieve that chill-bride vibe.

Wear your problem-solver hat on Every problem has a solution. These problems are typically for the wedding planner to take care of, but if you’re planning your own wedding then talk to all vendors and suppliers about potential issues and challenges. Leverage their professional expertise to come up with solutions.

Be flexible There’s no need to go crazy over what’s considered “standard” – go with your and the groom’s preferences and what’s best for the couple and the guests at the same time. Don’t wallow over the smallest inconvenience, and accept what went wrong. Try your best to come up with a great alternative or solution.

Trust the vendors You chose the wedding vendors and suppliers for a reason: they’re experienced and good at what they do. Rely on their expertise and don’t fuss over what they should be fussing about in the first place.

Don’t micromanage Give the bridesmaids direction or some sort of guideline on what to do or wear, and be organized with the photographer. But don’t micromanage and don’t shadow them every step of the way. They’re adults and they know what to do, especially how to make the wedding a success!


Douglas Grady is an event planner who is passionate about meeting new people and planning large-scale events. He majored in communications and public relations at the University of Washington. At present, his work is based in Orange County, California. Read more on this page.

The Simple Guide To Becoming a Great Wedding Photographer

It’s hardly possible to imagine a wedding without a wedding photographer. This doesn’t mean that weddings would be meaningless without pictures. However, wedding photography has become a part of every nuptial, be it a civil or church wedding. The union of two individuals is captured and immortalized by talented photographers that give story to each frame. 

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Be clear with what you’re offering as a photographer. When a client asks for your services, let them know of your available equipment, your team (if you have any), and show them your previous work. If large family photos won’t be something you will be offering, provide alternatives like smaller group photos. Pre-plan your shoots so as to not miss important shots. Wedding photography isn’t spontaneous like street photography. Scout for locations, and if your clients have places in mind, check them and see how you’ll be able to work with the lighting and other conditions of the place. 

It’s important to ask the couple what they want their shoot to be like. Ask them who the VIPs are in their wedding. Make sure to capture moments with them. On the day of the wedding, make sure you know what will transpire. Know the ones involved in the program. 

While it’s great to capture spontaneous moments during the wedding and reception, don’t be afraid of directing your subjects. With a few directions here and there, you’ll be boosting the confidence of the subjects, allowing them to relax when being photographed. Follow the smiles. Knowing the most expressive guests will provide you with the best subjects. 

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Douglas Grady, event and wedding planner at your service. My business is based in Orange County, California. I am passionate about travel and photography. Subscribe to my blog to get more photography tips.